We divide sexual preferences into three axes:

Axis 1: Preference for Sexual Gender: This refers to attraction to males, females, or both.

Axis 2: Preference for Body Types**: This refers to attraction to specific stages of physical development (1. before puberty, 2. early puberty, and 3. late puberty, which includes adulthood). Here, we can distinguish two subgroups. Some people are exclusively attracted to bodies before puberty (pedophilia) or to those in early puberty (hebophilia). Others are attracted to two or all three body types (pedo-hebe-teleiophilia), meaning that sexual fantasies may include not only prepubescent or early pubescent individuals but also adults.
 

Axis 3: Sexual Inclinations (or anything else that matters): This refers to specific aspects of preferred partners, such as body size, skin and hair color. It also includes the preferred type of sexual interactions, like vaginal, oral, or anal sex. Additionally, sexual attraction to objects such as leather, shoes, socks, or diapers, and specific body parts beyond the genitals, like feet or hair, also fall under this axis. Specific forms of interaction, like public exposure or secretly watching others during sexual acts, are included here as well.

The colourful world of sexual desires 

– three persons share their stories

The colourful world of sexual desires – three persons share their stories

Michael:

My name is Michael, I am 17 years old and will soon take my A-levels. I masturbate twice daily. When doing so I reach orgasm by fantasizing about having anal sex with girls aged 4 to 10 (pre-pubertal). The same image will appear in my imagination: a small, thin, curly-haired girl with chubby red cheeks and a pretty flowered dress. This leads to his most intense orgasms. Sometimes I also use pornographic videos. There I watch different scenes, such as a man having vaginal sex or anal sex with a woman with small breasts and the pubic hair shaved off, preferably in a school uniform. I just peek to the video but still concentrate on my own fantasies of younger girls. I have a girlfriend who is 16. I like her and enjoy feeling “normal” behaving like the rest of my classmates. 

The colourful world of sexual desires – three persons share their stories

Thomas:

I’m Thomas, 43-years-old and I’m a lawyer. I began masturbating when I was 12. I remember having arousing fantasies of adult women and girls aged 11-15 in knee socks right from the start. Now and then, I buy new or used female knee socks on the internet and smell them while masturbating. Even now my fantasies have not changed. I masturbate every day and prefer my fantasies over videos. Especially because I know that pornographic materials with girls aged 11-15 are illegal and harmful, I only use videos with adult women having vaginal intercourse while wearing knee socks. Until now, I haven’t managed to have a relationship because I’m afraid a woman will reject me when they get to know my sexual preference.

The colourful world of sexual desires – three persons share their stories

Carlos:

I’m 30 years old and work in construction. I fantasize about adult men giving me oral sex while other people are watching us. Other scenes also exist but always include me receiving oral sex from a man. I masturbate twice a week an I’m in a loving, communicative relationship with another man who is 35 years old. He knows about my fantasies and doesn’t have any problems with my sexual desires. He prefers anal sex, but is also into oral sex and feels happy to see me getting excited. We often visit swinger clubs to live some of my audience fantasies. We both are okay with our sexual preferences and are planning their future lives together.

Let’s talk about you!

Let’s talk about you:

When you stimulate yourself, do you fantasize about male or female partners, or both genders?

1. Sexual gender preference (for males, for females or both)

Let’s talk about you:

When you stimulate yourself, which body age arouses you the most in your sexual fantasies? Does the desired body age vary or do you always fantasize about the same body age? Which body age comes into your mind most often without manipulating your fantasies?

2. Preference for the sexually arousing body schema (prepubescent, (early)pubescent, late and post-pubertal or more than one)

Let’s talk about you:

When you stimulate yourself, specifically which sexual acts, sexual positions, attributes, objects or special situations arouse you in your sexual fantasies? Is it very important for your arousal to fantasize about those details or can you also reach arousal without those conditions?

3. Sexual proclivity (all other aspects of preferred partners and/or mode of sexually preferred interactions/behaviours)