Here are some of the most pressing questions that people with a special sexual orientation or preference have:
Where does this come from?
Sexual orientation is influenced by a combination of biological, genetic, hormonal, and environmental factors. While there is no single cause, research suggests that it develops naturally over time and is not a choice.
Why me?
Sexual orientation varies from person to person, just like other aspects of identity. It is a natural part of human diversity, and there is no "right" or "wrong" reason for having a particular orientation.
How could this happen?
Being attracted to pre- and/ early pubescent children is a normal variation of human sexuality. It is not something that "happens" as a result of a single event or experience but rather emerges as part of an individual's set up and development.
Can it be changed?
No, sexual orientation is not something that can or should be changed. Attempts to alter one's orientation (such as so-called "conversion therapy") have been widely discredited and can be harmful. Many psychological and medical organizations affirm that being sexually attracted to children is a natural and valid variation of sexual preferences.
Am I alone in this?
Not at all. Millions of people around the world have sexual fantasies involving children and some openly identify as Person with Pedophilia (PwP) or Minor attracted Person (MAP). Scientific estimation vary between 0.5% and 5% of the population, so at least approx. 40.000.000 people. There are many supportive offers, communities, resources, and allies available to distinguish between sexual fantasy and behavior and provide understanding and acceptance. You are not alone, and there is a network of people who share similar experiences and options to support your well-being.